Sometimes break ups happen for reasons that seem strange to us. Other times, small things may have gotten in the way of the bigger relationship picture.
It"s important to consider the reasons why you broke up before you begin looking at the ways to rekindle love.
|Is It Possible to Get Your Ex Back?|
Many people begin to blame themselves, thinking they've done something wrong to ruin the relationship. They go through every conversation and action, wondering what it was that made your partner suddenly decide he or she didn't want to be with you any longer.
When this kind of self-blame happens, it can destroy your confidence levels and make things even more difficult to deal with.
Perhaps the biggest consideration you need to work through is why you want your partner back. Of course you miss being with your partner, but think carefully about the relationship you had.
Was it really that good, or were there parts about your lover you overlooked because you were in love? Did you have enough in common to create a lasting bond that would develop into a long term relationship? Did one or the other of you do something to break the trust between you?
Once you've answered these questions, it's time to tackle some ways to help you get your ex back.
However, before you decide to attack the matter like a regular commando, with your war paint on and screaming "I will get you back if I have to walk to hell and back", you need to do a little soul searching and a little objective analysis or you may ruin it all again.
You see, your ex is already thinking that things didn't work between you. Even if you do manage to get him to give things another try, what will make him believe anything will be any different the second time around?
Are you both going to fall back into old patterns that ended the relationship in the first place?
Or are you prepared to build a solid foundation of love and trust so that the second time around is the one that lasts a lifetime?
Ps. Its so true that you have to be sure of your own intentions while getting your ex back, it has to be true love and only love; not depending or relaying on your ex to much to see clearly. Read more about how to make up instead of breakup or how to handle a breakup the best way...