Getting back together again

Getting Back Together Again

Author: Dick Scott

Let me share a wonderful moment with you; the moment of getting back together. It can be a moment of reconsideration after a break up in your relationship. It can be a moment of forgiveness after a controversy with a friend. Im sure you all have had that experience in some way or form.

I use to think that maybe it is something meaningful in such events; they make us remember how much our relationship is worth for us. When we feel blissful after getting back together the last thing we want is to say or do something that may hurt our partner or friend.

It is like a wake up call to make us see and feel gratitude in life again. Suddenly those annoying things we used to focus on dont seem so important anymore. We got a completely new approach to our situation.

Getting Back Together 

So my point with this story is to give you some hope. Whenever you are in despair or you feel like you are a victim remember that it is never to late to forgive. With a forgiving attitude it is possible to regret any hostile feelings that you have had. Someone has to take the first step and it should be you because you then will show greatness. There is greatness within all of us but we have to show it to believe it. 

If for some reason you absolutely not can or will forgive another person then it is very important to let go and not torture yourself with guilt or sorrow. The choise is yours and you have to make that choise. Let me remind you of the wonderful relief that is waiting for those who forgive instead of the bitterness that is very harmful.

It is not easy but it can be done. I hope this article has inspired you to do what you can and get back together again with your loved ones and share many  blissful moments.

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Facing an Ex Encounter

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 * They were caught off guard too: Though easy to take a myopic view, understanding everything being felt by one party is, most likely, being felt by the other as well. * Accept the situation: Acknowledging the fact the event happened can minimize the pressure. * Keep it simple: A short conversation benefits everyone because there is not time for awkwardness in what is said or the silence. Pitfalls and Problems Running into an ex, by its very nature, is a social landmine ready to explode taking self esteem, existing friendships and current romantic relationships with it. The key to avoiding the pitfalls is to know they are there and step around them. For this to happen, a person needs a high level of emotional maturity and strength. * The temptation to avoid them will occur early, but moving into the encounter directly will prevent the appearance of an emotional attachment.

* Speaking from a place of honesty about what is happening in one's life demonstrates the healthy place one lives while resisting the urge to downplay or oversell anything. * Unless coming from the gym, paying attention to appearance shows the lack of a shattered life. This proves more important when attending an event with a high likelihood of running into one's ex. * Manage the conversation by not promising future plans and end the exchange at a natural stopping point without lingering. * Try to act as naturally as possible and not be overly odd, even if the ex found it charming, because this never begins as a "win them back" scenario.

* Regardless of the assessment or outcome, release the encounter as soon as possible or it might become an anchor dredging up the past. Benefits of Bumping into an Ex If asked, most people would struggle to find anything positive from an unexpected meeting with an ex. It is easy to see things from a negative viewpoint. However, numerous things doe surface following such an encounter. They may receive confirmation the decision proved to be the correct one, rekindle fond memories of a time of their life with other events they suppressed or be encouraged to visit a location they have avoided since the end of the relationship. These can all be seen as road markers on the destination to emotional maturity meaning a better chance for future relationships. Though not the first thing people think of when leaving a relationship, everyone should be ready when an ex walks back into their life. There are many fish in the sea, but they are all swimming in the same sea. Accepting and taking control of their half of the exchange means no one must be crippled by the "former" part of a former relationship.