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lördag 18 maj 2013

We Are Getting Back Together:Fresh Start Tips While Getting Along With Your Ex

The key to a fresh start and being able to move on with your life is to cut those emotional ties that seemed to bind the two of you together like shackles.  This is the time when you have to work on regaining your confidence, self worth, and most importantly the desire and will to live your own life as an individual.

The very first thing you have to do is get rid of any of your ex-spouse’s belongings as they will only serve to remind you of each and every painful memory.  To be able to move on you have to get rid of these things or you will never be able to start a new life with constant reminders of him everywhere.

Another problem you may face is with your friends, as some of them may feel reticent to be in your presence as if your new status is somehow catching and may cause problems in their own marriages.  However, you will find that most of them will eventually come around. Many will also be there for you to have a shoulder to cry on.

Don’t divide your social acquaintances into 'his friends and my friends', as that may destroy valuable friendships of people who do not want to take sides.  Don't allow your anger and pain to push everyone away from you.

Fresh Start Tips While Getting Along With Your Ex

If you relied heavily on your partner throughout your marriage you may fear facing the world again and be terrified at the thought of having to support yourself and your family, but remember that you can be whoever you want to be and do whatever you want to do.  You have to first believe in yourself and realize that you can be strong even without your partner at your side, because as soon as you regain your self-confidence the world will be your oyster and the sky will be your only limit.

If you are finding it difficult to rebuild your self-esteem there are some options available to you that you may find helpful.  One way is to start a journal where you can write down whatever you are feeling or thinking which will help you gain a little insight into what problems you need to deal with.  Support groups and networks are also an ideal way help you find yourself and also to meet new people.  Another great resource you can consider are life coaches who will help you rediscover yourself by challenging you to connect and use your inner strength, even if you don't think you have any.

To be able to move forward you have to let go of the past, especially if you want to maintain a healthy relationship with your ex spouse for your children's sake.  Pent up anger and resentment will do nothing to help anyone and it matters little who is to blame, as the relationship is clearly over and this will not benefit the children in any way, nor will it help you move on.

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